Thursday, February 25, 2010
Beginning Again...
Well what can I say? I have not felt this way in a while, but now the familiar feeling of being single has returned. It is weird, but not necessarily bad. I don't think that I will be out looking for something like what I had soon, but that is not to say that it will never happen. I am so so so happy that thinigs are not weird, and that above all else friends will always be there. I have finally come to grips with my situation, can move on from the ending of the last few months. I am beginning again, and I can accept this as my reality. Time to man up and not dwell on this because you can't move forward if you are constantly holding back. It was something I will never forget, and a great lesson for me to learn by. I am beginning again...
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ReplyDeleteThis is embarassing...
ReplyDeleteFair enough, but is it not legal to express my thoughts and feelings? I am done with this now, so you can get off my back about it...
ReplyDeleteOn this scale, no. That's why friends have ears--trust in them, for blogging to express feelings is a feminine act reserved for women and teenagers. It's ok for a man to be sensitive, but this is not free expression, this is a cry for attention. What is there to gain but weightless affirmation? If you ask me, Boy Blue, that sort of needy attitude is what keeps you single in the first place... Besides, when have we ever turned down your need to express how you're feeling face to face? Never, that's when. Perhaps our experienced advice is not what you want to hear. Well, it is based on first-hand trial and error from three different upbringings and four different geographic areas of our culture; therefore, there must be some truth to it... It's about more than getting over it now. It's about learning from your experience to progress further into manhood. Take two steps forward, recognize your value and decide what separates a friendly act and being taken advantage of. Self-sacrifice on a small scale is not noble if the recipient wouldn't/hasn't done the same for you... Also, remember the principle of least interest. He/she who expresses the least amount of interest holds the most power in any exchange. The old business term works for relationships too... Please dude, seeing BOYS act like this makes me want to throw up.
ReplyDeleteFair enough, I do not want something like this post to come between any of my friendships with anyone. I recognize that there has never been a time where talking to you guys has been turned down. It's true, it was not the advice I wanted to hear, and I can admit that now. I know where things stand now, and I feel like this is the kind of thing that can help me learn, in more ways than one. I appreciate the bluntness Dean, because looking at it now from this perspective I can see where you would derive these thoughts. It is time for me to grow up, and I do not want you to throw up man, because that is just outright disgusting lol
ReplyDeleteYessir, no doubt!!!
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